"Every morning when i open my eyes i say to myself: I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn't arrived yet. I have just one day, today, and i'm going to be happy in it."

- Groucho Marx

Friday, April 16, 2010

"I will find it someplace else"


Men and Woman cheat for different reasons but the MOST common one is, someone in the relationship is not providing what he or she needs ; so they find it else where. Before you go into a relationship , you have to know what your getting yourself into. You have to know what the other person likes and what they don't like. If the love is strong enough then you both can COMPROMISE. Most people step into the relationship not knowing anything about the person they're with ; for god sake they can be a killer but you wouldn't know that!! If you know your significant other likes opera and you hate it , if you love or like he or she a lot then you would have no problem going with them to an opera show. If you have a problem with it and you don't tell your significant other than things may get out of hand. This is when he or she starts going out to explore their options. Your going to be in trouble if they find someone that adores opera!!! This is why taking your time to learn what he or she is about is very important. You may think this 17 year old girl doesn't know what she talking about but wait and see, you might be in a predicament one day! PLEASE just do yourself a BIG favor and go into the relationship knowing what the other person is about and make sure your willing to COMPROMISE!!! If not they may start to think "They cant do it or like dont like it , i will find it someplace else" ...
XOXO , Cey

3 comments:

  1. Well I have to agree, another significant factor of a relationship is an open door policy. I think it is important that both parties of a relationship are as open as can be with one another. 100% truth is the key factor to a successful relationship. I am a big fan of this blog.

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  2. Thank you very much. Yes,Trust and truthfulness is a very big part to a relationship.

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  3. thats true i deff agree with evrythang said here fatimah

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